shower

okay maybe i'm a little different. i'm kind of a girly girl but i do not put up with taking forever to get ready. i just get fed up with it. 

so we've already learned that HM takes FOR-EV-ER to get ready! she's actually not to bad when it comes to actually taking a shower, but she has so much s*** in the shower, i'm not kidding. i wish i had a picture, maybe i'll take one and post it later.

so it's an older shower, like i'm thinking early 80's. It looks good but it's outdated. There are also so ledges EVERYWHERE! The shower head, makes me feel like buddy the elf taking a shower at the north pole and i'm only 5'6".  

so my stuff, which would be shampoo, conditioner, body wash and my  weekly color treatment fit on this tiny shelf under the shower head. my razor is one of the cool ones that has suction cups on the back and then my scrubby [which is way cool cause it changes colors when it's wet!] is on this little hook on the wall about my shoulder height. that's all that's mine

then on every other ledge there is crap covering it! i swear there are like four or five different sets of shampoo and conditioner in there and then there's all this other stuff! so when i moved in she was all like you can use anything i have in the shower, as long as it isn't my shampoo and conditioner-that's practically all she has. she has a couple body washes-you only need one- and then so other scrub thing and then an exfoliating thing for her heels.

so there's really no room left in that shower so when TM moves in i don't know where her stuff is gonna go. for all i know HM might through my stuff out in the cold for her. why do girls have drama? i am way low drama!

groceries

when i started to look into moving in with HM and Tomgirl, which will now be referred to as TG, HM said that she would give me rides whenever i needed to and that TG and i would just give her gas money each month. which was something that made moving okay.

HM has only given me a ride twice, and i've needed one at least 15 times but know i can't rely on her. so i've been walking to places i can. like last night i walked home from a concert i was in, 3.5 miles at 8:30-don't tell my mom she'll freak. i also walked it today to that same concert, but got a ride home. but back to the story...

Earlier today i was trying to find a grocery store that was close so that i could go and get ingredients to make pumpkin chocolate chip cookies. [i needed to make them to say thank you to some people] so i looked on the internet and then asked HM and she was all like i don't think there is one. well after that i decided to take a nap and then leave early for the concert and go a little bit further and go to smiths down the street.

so i woke up from my nap, and got ready. while i was getting ready they walked in with bags from a bookstore and a grocery store...A GROCERY STORE. couldn't she have let me know she was going? couldn't she have at least asked me what i needed? grrr! i was so mad, but i kept my cool and left for my trek.

text messages

so does anyone send messages to one person but it's written like it's sent to multiple people? i may have done it once or twice... but let me preface this story by saying it's just me and HM living in the apartment right now, my other roommate-who doesn't have a name yet-moves in after i leave for Christmas. We're getting the carpets cleaned this afternoon, so it's just our stuff that's everywhere. Yesterday she sent me this...

Hey girlies!!! The carpet

cleaner is coming tomorrow

at 3.30ish. So we need to

make sure everything is ready..

I'm going to move the lovesac

tonight and stuff in my room.

And vacume the place.. :)

let me first say that putting a smiley face at the end does not make it okay to say whatever you want to and it be okay. just like when you say no offense before you say something mean-it's not cool. okay but i didn't change the format of any of that. let's dissect that for problems, you must know that when people go to her home country she gives them a hard time for not doing things her country's way. 

okay so it's 3:30 not 3.30

if you want to do an ellipse it's ... not ..

vacume? no it's vacuum

and the infamous :)

now don't get me wrong  smiley's have their face but not in this kind of message. and can i just add that she did none of that last night, i however cleaned out my whole room except for my bed. 

but when text message you are sending is really only for one person, don't send it to multiple people, just send it to the one. because then you just look like a douche!

introductions

so mostly this was made so that i could vent about my roommates without them knowing since they follow my personal blog. this is for the public...anyone and everyone is more than welcome to read this. 

let's begin

why is the address is thedoorwasclosed.blogspot.com, you may ask?

it's the first reason i needed this blog, when you are living with people you aren't really close with wouldn't you knock before you opened a closed door? yeah High Maintenance, which will hereby be referred to as HM from now on, doesn't she just walks right in and creates awkward situations

why is her name HM? because she takes 2 hours to get ready on a normal day...and at this point i don't even want to think about how long it takes her to get ready for a special occasion and that's after the shower and before the outfit so just hair and make up! ridonkulous!!

i take an hour to:

• shower, that's with getting the water at the right temp too
• blowdrying my hair
• straightening my hair
• and putting on make up

and my outfits are usually about 5 minutes, with accessories

but i digress, i'm a private person when i'm in my apt but when i'm out or blogging/facebooking i'm outgoing. so when my door is shut i just want some alone time or i need to concentrate. or maybe it's one of those instances when i'm changing, yes she's walked in on me changing AWKWARD! but it gets worse, she stood there staring at my uncovered half while talking to me. [to make things clear she is very straight, promise]

while i was unpacking, before the previous incident, i was unpacking and i was getting overwhelmed so i shut the door so i could go one box at a time without being interrupted, she came in, texting, and sat down on the bed i was using(long story) without saying a word. a couple minutes, while she was still texting, i asked her what was up, cause it was getting awkward. she said nothing, so i asked if she needed anything, she again said nothing. then a few minutes later she walked out, leaving the door open! what was that?

the boys scouts say something like "leave it better than you found it" but i'm okay as long as you leave it the way she found it, which she didn't.

what's a girl to do when she's got five months of living in apartment ahead of her with a roommate who drives you crazy and you can't move out?

well, i'm gonna call it a night! more stories to come, promise!